As I sit here today I can’t help but think of all the days
spent dreaming of being right where I am, in this moment. We are birthing a new baby church, growing a
team of incredible friends, enjoying our
beautiful city and reveling in His
goodness and His perfect timing day in and day out.
It’s a bit shocking to us the opportunities God has afforded us in our short time here. We have met
and disciple many future leaders of not only South Africa but the nations of
Africa. We have been afforded the
privilege to utilize Jason’s education as a lawyer to combat sex-trafficking
through consulting on cases, raising awareness at the university and joining
brave men & women who fight on behalf of the oppressed day in & day
out.
My favorite story though is one I will never forget and the
purpose of this post. This story is one
worth sharing over and over again.
One day standing in the kitchen, a teammate & roommate,
Carmen, received a text message from a young woman in our college Lifegroup. She had found herself in a situation she had no idea how to handle or escape. She
felt as though there was only one way out.
She informed Carmen of her pregnancy and her decision to terminate
it. Having very little time to prepare
for what we would say or do in response we called upon the masses to PRAY! We went to speak with the timid and fragile
girl. In her presence I quickly saw
everything she was made to be, the power and influence that a life submitted to
Jesus could result in and the humility to win the hearts of men & women worldwide. I suddenly was full of faith for this young
woman’s life. How do you tell a 19 year
old that her pregnancy is a gift in the face of family rejection, society scorn
and friendly judgment? It will, in no
small way, change the course of her entire life. Yet, there I was, having only met her once before, begging for the life of her baby. I had
decided many years ago that people’s decisions could not dictate my ability to
LOVE. So, that being said, at the end of
the day, no matter what she decided to do I would love. However, far
be it from me (and Carmen!) to let the opportunity pass where we did not
literally beg for her baby’s life. She
adamantly told me she had made her decision.
I squealed and squawked for her to “CHANGE HER MIND!” -- to no avail. Our conversation ended with a termination appointment looming in 12 hours, so we prayed for the TANGIBLE presence of Jesus
Himself to fill her room, speak to her, love her, whisper His protection over
her, give her revelation of His unchanging, unmoving love for her and His
Promise to take care of her baby no matter what!
“Now to him who is able to do immeasurably more than
all we ask or imagine, according to his power that is at work within us, to him
be glory in the church and in Christ Jesus throughout all generations, for ever
and ever! Amen.” –Ephesians 3:20-21
We came home and prayed more, wept some and awoke to the
news that our friend had encountered something during the night that only the
Bible describes so plainly. God had
moved on her behalf and restored her to Himself. She was indeed going to keep her baby. In her words, “Who am I to tell God that I
know any better than him?” There was a
radical and quick obedience despite the impending scorn. She looked at the cost and said to her
child, “You are worth it.”
“For I know the plans I have for you. Plans to prosper you and not to harm
you. Plans to give you a hope and a
future.” –Jeremiah 29:11
Her name is Zintle.
(Zin-slay) Her name means, “They
are beautiful.”
(Oo-yuh-tahn-dwuh) this
is entertaining because I have no idea how to phonetically spell anything!)
He came out as a worshiper! VICTORY! (March 2, 2015) A tiny miracle weighing in as a 5.5lb heavyweight. |
“See I am doing a new thing! Now it springs up; do you not perceive
it? I am making a way in the wilderness
and streams in the wasteland.” –Isaiah 43:19
There have been many questions and concerns. How long will he be with us? Most likely Uya will be with us for a couple
of months until he goes to live with extended family who are eagerly awaiting
their opportunity to love on him! After
much prayer we have decided that the future heartache doesn’t dictate our
behavior. We risk love because he’s
worth it. We risk separation from a boy
we will love as our own because LOVE enters into every situation, it rushes in
unhindered, always willing, no matter the outcome. If I weighed every decision based on my
controlled and calculated assessment of the heartache and risk ahead I wouldn’t
truly live. My only stance, my only choice
can be love because of what Jesus Christ has done for me.
“And we know that in all things God works for the good
of those who love him, who have been called according to his purpose.” –Romans
8:28
Please be praying for us as we journey into the
unknown. We love this baby boy. We love his mama. We are humbled by God’s willingness to
entrust us with his precious life for whatever amount of time he will be with
us. However, let’s be real, I often make
Zintle promise me that even when he’s sixteen that he can spend the night on occasion. ;)
The generosity of the masses for the sake of the one has
always been something that has blown my mind.
Thank you friends and family for coming around us financially,
emotionally & practically to see this future world-changer born into care,
celebration, belief and unshakable love.
On behalf of his beautiful mama, Zintle, and our family, we are forever thankful.
May God receive ALL the glory from this precious life.
May God receive ALL the glory from this precious life.
What a beautiful story!!! Miss you!!!
ReplyDeleteBeautiful! So thankful to know the rest of the story!!!!!!!! Praise God!
ReplyDeleteIncredible! Thank you for sharing! Love yall so much!
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